2nd Sunday of Advent Cycle C
8 December 2018
Prepare the Way by Deacon Les
We are already into the second week of Advent.
Was the past week any different in our hearts from the week before? Did we spend time thinking about the meaning and relevance of Advent in our lives as we prepare for the celebration of Christmas? The answer for many of us is ‘Probably not’.
It’s very difficult to make Advent meaningful in a society that is focused on the synthetic glitter of commercialism and the anticipation of the holiday season.
All the more reason why our liturgy during Advent should be noticeably different from other seasons to remind us, if only once a week in our worship, that Advent is a time of quiet reflection in anticipation of Christmas; no flowers, no “Gloria”, purple vestments, and music kept to a minimum and noticeably subdued.
It’s quite likely that our time and energy over the next few weeks will be consumed by a sense of nervous anxiety; gifts to buy, preparing for Christmas lunch, a list of things to be done before the holidays start, concerns about money, perhaps some apprehension about spending time with difficult family, in-laws or friends, etc.
If we want this Advent and Christmas to be more meaningful, we are going to have to make that happen. If we do nothing, Advent will fly past without notice and Christmas will mean little more than an expensive meal and an exchange of gifts.
We could use today’s Gospel as a guide for some action to make Advent and Christmas more meaningful.
Luke tells us that “the word of God came to John (the Baptist) in the desert.” And John’s message was:
- Repent and
- Prepare the way for the Lord:
- Make crooked roads straight
- Fill in the valleys
- Level the hills
- And smooth out the rough paths
Let’s look at John’s urgent call in terms of our lives today.
Repentance as we’ve heard many times before is not about being sorry; it’s about a determination to change.
I’ve recently read Tara Westover’s astounding memoir “Educated.”
She was born in rural Idaho in the northwest of the Unites States in 1986 to radical survivalist Mormon parents. She didn’t get a birth certificate until she was nine. She never went to school and she was seventeen the first time she entered a classroom. Remarkably within 10 years she’d earned a PhD from Cambridge.
As a girl and young woman she was repeated beaten and abused viciously by an older brother who was always really apologetic and sorry afterwards. He was always sorry but he never repented; he never changed his behaviour.
In our relationship with God and with our friends and family, where do we need to repent? What are the behaviours that we need to change? Is it the words we use or perhaps the words we don’t use? Is it something we repeatedly do or fail to do?
When we are ready to say ‘I’m sorry” and are determined to change, we should seek the Sacrament of Reconciliation to give us the grace to do better in all our relationships.
How do we make the crooked road straight?
There’s a delightful animated movie called ‘The Star’ which tells the story of the nine months leading up to the birth of Jesus through the eyes of a donkey. A telling of the Nativity that is as appealing to adults as it is to children. I’ve been cajoled by my two Grandchildren (3 and 6 years old) into watching this movie with them umpteen times in the last few weeks.
We’re more likely to walk in a straighter line if we keep our eyes on “the star” that leads to Bethlehem.
When we take our eyes off the Star, we’re easily side-tracked and soon find ourselves wandering in the wilderness rather than kneeling at the manger.
How do we fill the valleys and level the hills?
Perhaps our valleys would be the times when we are discouraged or unwell or facing hardship or spiritual drought. We could try and fill these valleys with hope and trust; trust in God. Focus on our blessings rather than our burdens.
The hills might be those times when everything is going well and we feel on top of the world. We need some temperance here as well and again to give thanks for our blessings rather than bask in our accomplishments.
And finally, how do we smooth out the rough paths?
We could start by identifying the bumps in the road; the spiritual potholes.
What are the obstacles in our relationship with God and other people? When we look into our hearts, what do we see there? Are we honestly able to see the potholes?
Is it selfishness; wrapped up in our own world of needs and desires? Is it fear of commitment; perhaps a fear of putting our trust in God and giving up some control? Is it laziness or lack of self-disciple; perhaps inertia or apathy? Is it a cold heart that can’t forgive or get over past hurts?
Without conscious effort, nothing will change, nothing will get repaired. If anything, the potholes will multiply and the path to God will become bumpier.
We could try and fill a few potholes over the next 2 weeks of Advent:
- Talk to God; frequently every day about everything
- Do a frank examination of conscience and commit to making a good confession
- Share some time and bring some joy into the life of someone who is lonely or depressed or seriously ill
- We could share some of our things; raid the wardrobe and generously give away clothes that are in excess to our needs. Children could raid their toy baskets and give away toys that they no longer use. Donate generously to the Advent Appeal, buy vouchers for the poor, buy a gift for an underprivileged child.
There are many ways to smooth the rough path.
The only thing that is holding us back from repentance is ourselves.
If we choose to, over the next two weeks of Advent, we can bring about small but meaningful changes in our lives that will bring us closer to the Lord whose birth we celebrate at Christmas.